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November 18, 2009

Bridesmaid Duties

As a Bridesmaid you have a strong supportive role you must play during the entire wedding experience. Although the Maid of Honor may be there for the bride, your friend will also need your comfort and opinions as well (in most cases).
Pre-Wedding
If the bride asks about helping her with ideas on where to have the wedding, help her with scouting around and going to the different places. It may be a great idea to drive so she can focus on each location.
If you have great penmanship it is always nice to volunteer to address at least some the invitations if the bride agrees. Many times a bride may outsource her invitations but if they need to be addressed by the family, your help will be key in reducing the load of tasks to complete.
Your friend may need help in ordering and choosing decorations and favors, your opinions may be helpful in making decisions for narrowing down choices and making sure the decorations are in on time for the wedding, shower and bachelorette parties.
It is a major treat to go with the bride when she is shopping for her wedding dress. She may even invite you to be involved in picking out the Modern Bridesmaid Dresses. It is very important to help make sure the dresses are ordered and arrive in enough time for alterations!
Make sure to pick up your Modest Bridesmaid Dresses in a “reasonable” amount of time in case of additional fittings.
Many times the groom does not want to go to register with his bride-to-be. You can be very supportive by going with your friend to register for her wedding gifts as well as letting other guests know where the bride and groom are registered. This is a very fun experience so take part in the choosing if she needs help.
Help the bride in the seating arrangement. This can be a very difficult process with the more people coming to the wedding. Many times it makes it easier to draw out the tables and move people around until you have a close to perfect fit. It is very helpful to bring this drawing to the wedding just in case there are any mix-ups, you will save the day!
Help Plan the Bridal Shower with the Maid of Honor as well as the Bachelorette Party!
Be a good communicator with information. Many times information prior to a wedding does not reach everyone. Friends will appreciate confirming plans of each shower and party as well as wedding day information.
Attend and help out during the rehearsal dinner. Many times the bride, groom and their families are pre-occupied and forget about things when you can save the day by being supportive.

Wedding Day
Assist the bride in getting into her dress and makeup
Ask if the bride needs anything (food, water, etc) all the way up till the time she is walking down the aisle. She will really appreciate it!
Assist the other bridesmaids on where to go and timing, especially if they show up late. Make sure that they look great on their Gold Bridesmaid Dresses.
Help make sure the bride has privacy if she needs some quiet time before the ceremony.
Be the witness in the signing of the marriage license which is an honor!
Assist the guests to their seats and be social prior to the wedding. The guests love to see the bridesmaids well dressed in Cream Bridesmaid Dresses and groomsmen out and about.
Take some deep breaths and walk slowly in your Basque Waist Bridesmaid Dresses when you walk down the aisle since it is common to speed up. If a groomsman walks down the aisle with you, make him refrain from talking or fooling around.
Always look for the unexpected since it is common for the most uncommon things to happen (something falling down). If you are close enough, fix what needs to be fixing so the bride, groom and their families can focus on the ceremony.
If you are single, make sure to mingle and have a great time at the party! It is mandatory to catch the bridal bouquet :)
If you are with your partner, make sure to dance and socialize since it means a lot to the bride and groom (when they have time to sit down) to see their friends having and creating a good time for themselves and the other guests.
Last, but not least, Provide moral support and be a great listener throughout the process since it is a very wonderful and “positively” stressful time for your friend. You can really make the difference!
Make sure to take lots of pictures when you’re on Taffeta Bridesmaid Dresses at the reception, wedding procession and afterwards. Many forget to take pictures and the bride and groom will appreciate them!

November 11, 2009

The Modern Bridesmaid Today

It’s a whole new day, and there’s a whole new look for bridesmaids. Which amounts to a welcome change from the past years. And it’s not just the bridesmaids getting a fashion facelift — brides are sporting a whole new look too.
Traditional wedding gowns and “bridal white” will always be a choice. That’s just not going to disappear, and that’s okay. But the choices available for the modern bride are vast — which is an invitation for those creative juices to flow, and your own personality to stand out. They are many kind of styles such as Sheath Bridesmaid Dresses, Bateau Bridesmaid Dresses and
Strapless Bridesmaid Dresses.
The history of the bridesmaids attire is colorful. In past centuries, brides wore elaborate gowns such as Basque Waist Bridesmaid Dresses, and bridesmaids dressed similarly (er, much like Queen Amidala and Sabe, her body double). The idea: to disguise the bride and protect her from kidnapping by evil spirits or feisty relatives. By the Victorian era, things had settled down considerably — so by then we had brides that wanted to stand out from the crowd. Enter the formal, ornate and very white wedding gown. Still, bridesmaid attire retained its bold and frilly look from the past.
Well, in this century bridesmaids have a lot more say. Not only have wedding gowns grown infinitely more couture-oriented, many brides now let their bridesmaids choose their own dress, just asking they keep to a color scheme. After all, all bridesmaids weren’t created equal. When you let them choose a dress that flatters them, you have happier bridesmaids and better photos.
Plus, gowns worn by the modern bridesmaid are often functional enough for other formal events and gatherings — a much savvier alternative to the pricey gown that’s worn once then buried deep in the closet, never to be seen again. We all remember wearing one of those awful creations at some point!
Also, there’s no longer any fast and set rules on how many bridesmaids to have. The size of your wedding often correlates to your number of attendants, but these days, the choice is up to you. You can choose a Halter Bridesmaid Dresses if you like. Tradition’s gone out the window (a pleasing thought for many brides). You can even have more than one maid of honor. The rules to play by are your own.
The same freedom applies to your flower girl(s) and ring bearer(s) — choose more than one, have just one, have one of each. But the best age range for this very important little person’s job is between 5 and 7, since younger children have a harder time staying focused. Still, if you don’t mind a little chaos, then by all means choose a younger child. After all, they can be awfully funny! Older children will be thrilled to man the guestbook or usher guests to their seats.
The more bridesmaids you have, the more coordination and communication you’re going to have to field. Remember: you’ll have plenty of issues to deal with, ranging from dresses to nails and from hair to jewelry. So don’t choose more maids than you can sanely handle. This is supposed to be a joyful time for you, and stress tends to knock the bloom off a little.
Also, forget the old theory that if you make everyone an attendant, from your first-grade best friend to that woman (Nicole? Natalie?) that sits in your pew, there’ll be hard feelings. Most women have outgrown this childish thought pattern, and understand that the modern bride has tough choices to make. Sometimes a bride just has too many close friends to make them all bridesmaids. Relax! Invite your friends to the wedding, and if you want, ask them for special favors: like doing your nails or hair, depending on their talents. Help them to make a choice for Long Bridesmaid Dresses. The maid of honor plays an important role. She’s the bride’s right arm, ready to help with any wedding tasks she can. She can help pick out the wedding gown, get the invitations in order, set up the shower, help with choosing the venue, help decorate, or even help with the food. The duties that fall to the maid of honor are endless — but be sure not to overwhelm her. Your maid of honor is like the bride’s personal first aid kit, ready and willing to fix anything that’s broken.
Bridesmaids also play an important role by planning the shower, and especially preparing munchies, cake, or sandwiches for it. They’re also there to support and help the bride whenever they can.
For the modern bride, these are happy times. Your choices are endless, and you can make your fashion statement while letting your bridesmaids make theirs. No more having to bow to tradition, unless you want to. Planning the perfect wedding’s never been easier!

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