Your friend is getting married. She’s thrilled. You’re thrilled for her. And she’s asked you to be a bridesmaid. It’s a happy occasion. Keep reminding yourself of that. When she’s freaking out about the cake, say it: It’s a happy occasion. When she picks out Plus size Bridesmaid Dresses that makes you look like a sick seal, say it: It’s a happy occasion.
You’ve agreed to be a bridesmaid, so it’s your job to help the bride. Sure, a year of planning may seem like a long time to be focused on your friend. And it is a long time. But, you knew this when you agreed to be a bridesmaid. So, don’t let her down. Follow these rules to being a good bridesmaid, and you might remain friends after the wedding.
Remember, it’s an honor
Be proud of yourself that you’re a good enough friend to rate. Maybe you were there the first night they met. Maybe you were there the moment they fell in love. Maybe you morally supported them throughout their courtship. Maybe you’re the best high school friend, the sister, the sister-in-law-to-be, or the best college friend. Maybe they just don’t have many friends and you got the position by default. Whatever the case, you’re one of their closest friends and for that you should be proud.
Don’t be the bad bridesmaid
Try very hard not to be the worst of the group. Brides remember bad behavior and nothing is worse than going down in wedding lore as the person who ruined the wedding. So, put on a happy face, be agreeable, and try to help out.
If you want to know, after the fact, if you were the worst bridesmaid, here’s how you can tell. Were you asked to stand at the end of the wedding party line-up during the pictures? This is a dead give-away. This was so the photographer could easily crop you out of the portrait that will forever hang in their living room even you are in your Strapless Bridesmaid Dresses. Curious guests now ask your former friends about the wedding party. They might even remark that it’s unusual to see that there were more groomsmen than bridesmaids.
Don’t say, “When I get married, I’m going to…”
No bride cares about your imaginary wedding. This is her real wedding. Get with the program. You can tell your other friends that you’re going to choose V-Neck Bridesmaid Dresses. Or, better yet, keep a journal (since no one really cares about your imaginary wedding). Plus, you might not ever get married. Especially if you keep talking about boring subjects such as your imaginary wedding.
Never say, “This is just like what so-and-so did”
Each bride is unique and her wedding is proof of her individuality. All weddings are not the same. She may not be the only one who ever thought to choose the Champagne Bridesmaid Dresses, but it’s a fine choice. Their decision not to shove cake up each other’s noses is an innovation to be proud of. Always praise that idea.
Do what you can
Spend what you can and bow out gracefully when you have to. No bride expects you to break the bank or attend every wedding-related event. (When bowing out, just remember: Don’t be the bad bridesmaid.)
Call for updates
Calls should be made on a sliding scale depending on proximity to the event or related events. Even if you win the lottery, cut off your hand in a freak boating accident, and get an audience with the Pope all in the same day, do not ever talk about yourself on the update phone call. Only talk about yourself if asked, and even then try to deflect attention back to the wedding. Your hand is gone. There’s nothing you can do about it now. Only mention it if gloves are not part of the bridesmaid ensemble. And even then, be very delicate about it. “What do you think about gloves? I see them a lot in these bridal magazines you sent me.”
Be agreeable about style choices
Only if you’ve cut your hand off and want to disguise it should you make any fashion suggestions to the bride. Keep all opinions about the wedding style positive. You love the Cap Sleeves Bridesmaid Dresses. You love the tuxes. Even if your wardrobe is completely wash and wear and your idea of a tux is the polyester kind from the 70s, you approve of, and wholeheartedly support, the bride’s choices.
Be nice to the goober they want to fix you up with
People in the throes of love want everyone to be as blissfully happy as they are. Pretend you believe.
Help your friend go to the bathroom
You’re on duty at the wedding. And your friend is wearing five tons of dress. So, keep this in mind when you tip your champagne flute. If you get drunk then who will hold the cream puff skirt up while she backs into the stall?
Do the chicken dance
Remember, they picked the music. So, don’t say, “I hate this song.” Also, stay until the reception hall manager kicks you out. Then go to the after-wedding party until the bride and groom go to their suite … finally.
Be amiable. Do what they want you to do. It’s only one night, so even after your feet start to bleed, hang in there. You can ice and bandage them at two, three AM, at the very latest. Plus, they probably gave you a gift for all of your trouble. You spent hundreds of dollars. You spend countless hours. And they gave you a necklace and earrings that’ll match the Silver Bridesmaid Dresses you’ll never wear again. (Remember, it’s an honor)
Of course, these tips will keep you in good stead with the couple. In fact, if you follow these guidelines, you may be their only friend. That is, of course, until it’s your turn to get married. So, if you really want to keep friends, when it’s your turn … elope! Marry in private. Sure, your friends might think they want to be bridesmaids. This might be because they’ve never done it before. So, spare them the agony they put you through and let the wife and daughter of the justice of the peace be your witnesses.
November 18, 2009
Honor or Disaster?
November 17, 2009
Discount Bridesmaid Dresses: How to Find a Stunning Dress for Less
Some people say there’s no such thing as Cheap Bridesmaid Dresses; well they just don’t know what they’re talking about. While the average price of Bridesmaid Dresses in the United States is between $120 and $150 that doesn’t mean you can’t find a killer design for $30 because well, it surely can be done. The biggest mistake brides make is assuming that the only acceptable dresses are those found at upscale bridal shops in the newest styles. These are of course sold at what is considered “top of the line prices.” However simply making a little adjustment in your shopping routine can help you and your ladies save lots of money while still looking fabulous in your Silver Bridesmaid Dresses at the same time.
End of Season
Shopping for clothing out of season is always the best deal. If your wedding colors are bright orange and yellow you’ll be able to find steals on dresses in these colors at the end of spring and end of summer. You may end up having to shop further ahead of schedule than most but the savings can be worth it. If you happen to be using out of season colors this could work to your benefit though because you can easily get those Yellow Bridesmaid Dresses at the end of summer for your perfect fall wedding.
Smaller Dress Stores
Instead of only browsing the large chain stores try looking through some smaller dress shops selling Wholesale Bridesmaid Dresses. It’s usually best to still stick with stores that have more than one location because you’ll likely need a dress in multiple sizes and you will need to be sure they can get it in various sizes for you, a boutique may not be able to accommodate your needs. These smaller dress store also normally price their attire much lower than the traditional formal bridal and wedding stores so if you can find something on sale in one of these you’re guaranteed a killer deal.
Alterations
If you’re a bride who happens to have a bunch of friends getting married at the same time and you’re all in each other’s weddings you might be able to get away with using some of the same dresses and having some alterations done to make them different from one wedding to the next and then the cost is lowered because you’re only actually buying the dress once and then paying to have it altered for each wedding.
Making them from Scratch
Have the dresses made from scratch. Sketch out your design and have a seamstress or someone you know make the dresses from scratch. You can also find actual dress patterns and then choose the fabric and make them from this. Making your dresses will save you a lot of money however it is also a good deal of work.
Choose Your Own
Let each bridesmaid choose her own dress. Give your ladies their parameters (color, length, fabric, etc.) and then allow them to find something that works well on their particular body so then they’ll be happy and comfortable. Plus letting them do the shopping enables them to find cute V-Neck Bridesmaid Dresses so they can save some cash as well.
November 8, 2009
Selecting A Bridal Gown For Your Body Type
Choosing your bridal gown is one of the most important fashion decisions you will ever make so be sure that it is the right one. It is hard enough to find that perfect gown for your wedding day, but to add to the frustration you must find something that works with your body type so that you will not only look amazing, but feel comfortable in. Brides come in all different shapes and sizes so we must choose a gown accordingly that will be flattering to our specific shape. The following are examples of body shapes and gowns that work according those figures.
Pear shaped - The pear shaped figure is a figure that is smaller at the top and fuller at the bottom, hence in the shape of a pear. (go figure!) A Ball Gown Evening Dresses is always a great choice with an accented waistline because it will minimize the hips and bring focus to the smaller upper bodice. This can be a gown that has pleats (including box pleats). A pear-shaped bride should stay away from sheath gowns (a gown that is straight up and down) as the fuller bottom will be pronounced in such a style .
Broad Shouldered brides should choose a gown that has spaghetti straps or a scoop neckline which to the eye shortens the width of the shoulders. An Bateau Prom Dresses with a dropped waist also elongates the bodice and narrows the shoulders. Broad shouldered brides should stay away from oversized sleeves or off the shoulder sleeves with ruffles or accents. Think less is more when it comes to accents on the shoulders.
Short/Petite brides should stay away from gowns that are “too much” meaning gowns with too much fabric that “swallow up the bride.” An Cap Sleeves Prom Dresses with many pleats usually do not work well with petite brides. Modified A-line or Princess A-line with natural waistlines gowns are great choices for petite brides. Dropped waistlines tend to make short brides look shorter.
Tall/thin brides look great in Short Evening Dresses which are gowns that are straight up and down. This will show off the figure and make a bride seem thinner than for example a very tall girl in a huge ball gown. Tall/thin brides are usually the only ones that can pull off such a gown so show it off if you can ladies!
Hourglass figure are brides that have curves like an hourglass. An V-Neck Bridesmaid Dresses (modified or princess) with a dropped waist works the best with hourglass figures. It shows off the figure while accenting the appropriate areas of the body. Also, a sweetheart neckline will accent the bodice if it covers enough of the full bustline.
Thick waisted brides look the best in Strapless Prom Dresses which are gowns that have a high waistline. Empire waistlines are usually right below the bustline and gradually fade to an A-line skirt. Thick waisted brides should stay away from natural waistline gowns that emphasize the waist.
Best of luck gown hunting! Remember always choose something that you feel most comfortable in and never be persuaded to buy something you do not want!
September 11, 2009
Choose the Appropriate Styles for Your Junior Bridesmaid
Finding something for a junior bridesmaid can be tricky. Not all designers make bridesmaid dresses styles, and let alone all designers make junior styles to match every style they have available. Therefore, you would better make better choice of the style for your junior bridesmaid dresses
Of course, you could pick different styles, no matter long or short , there are many different styles dresses like V-Neck Bridesmaid Dresses, Basque Waist Bridesmaid Dresses, Dropped Waist Bridesmaid Dresses ,Cap Sleeves Bridesmaid Dresses ,Bateau Bridesmaid Dresses and others .But in my opinion, it is better to choose a relatively short Bridesmaid Dresses for the teenage girls. So, the separate and cocktail dresses may be more favorable.
Cocktail dress is a great trend for bridesmaids. This kind of dresses is convenient because the little girls are active and want to move at every moment. In addition, the teenage bridesmaids may use the cocktail dress even after the big day, so they’ll get much more use out of the dress, while still looking elegant at the wedding. They don’t all have to be the same style, just make sure the dresses are in the same color or in harmony with the wedding theme.
To choose separates for your bridesmaid dresses will also please the little girls. The separates means more combinations between the tops and the skirts. You could choose one or two skirt styles, and several different tops, and give the girls rights to mix-and-match to fit themselves. They’ll have a unique look but still get to choose a style that flatters their body shapes, because separates can be easy to fit on any girl, even the larger girls.
